Just as an FYI, any time you see someone soliciting in the neighborhood
that you aren't 100% certain is legitimate, it's good to call 911 to have
them checked out, according to our neighborhood police officer. But* please
also* post to the list, with as much detail as possible about both
appearance and behavior, as it's very helpful when they return the
following day to try a different story one street over!
I understand Bridgette's reaction, because of course we all know that young
black men face undue suspicion in their everyday lives, and I think Keith
has done a nice job of explaining why he was uneasy with the man who
appeared on his doorstep. White, black, and brown folks have all been
caught breaking into homes in this area, and the economy is drawing more
people to illicit means of making ends meet, so *anyone* unfamiliar should
be looked at carefully.
Remember that about half of the folks at our community watch meeting last
summer had experienced a break-in during the time they've lived in our
neighborhood, myself included. When you've had a cab driver stabbed to
death in front of a house on your block, and two people walking through the
neighborhood shoot a man in his car a few streets over, it's both natural
and wise to be wary of strangers knocking on your door even a few years
later. (But the relative rarity of such incidents today is a great
indicator of how much better the area has become since we formed the
neighborhood watch!)
What all of this says to me is that we must continue reaching out to get to
know everyone in the community by face, if not by name. When we have more
confidence in our ability to recognize who is out of place--and we easily
recognize others as a particular neighbor's adult child or family friend or
cousin--we are all safer. Events like the recent post-tornado block party
also go a long way toward building a strong community. (I know that where I
grew up, plenty of people got into trouble, but they went outside their own
neighborhoods to do it, because it was too easy for someone to call your
grandmother or otherwise identify you! Likewise, when people from outside
the community see that neighbors here introduce themselves to unfamiliar
faces and ask where you live, etc., they tend to choose a different area to
target for crimes.)
By the way,* would anyone like to volunteer themselves (or their neighbor)
to take over the leadership duties for our Neighborhood Watch?* I've had a
hard time getting meetings scheduled since going back to work full time,
and if someone else can do more, I'd be glad to hand over the reigns!
Contact me off-list and I can share more about what's involved.
Your friendly (albeit neglectful) neighborhood watch captain,
Rebecca
On Wed, May 30, 2012 at 12:38 AM, Keith Emrick <keith.emrick(a)gmail.com>wrote;wrote:
A couple things:
After the tornado we were SWAMPED with solicitors who wouldn't leave our
property. It left a bad taste.
Canvassing is fine. I've conversed with many in the past who were
obviously official.
No badge, no clipboard, nothing to identify any purpose.
Possibly under the influence of drugs, wasn't walking straight and looked
completely out of it.
A 115 lbs dog going bezerk didn't deter him. He stayed on our porch for
minutes before leaving eventually but still looking back every few steps
He didn't go next door. He knocked on our door and disappeared.
I felt these actions to be suspicious.
Would I prefer the person not to not have been a tall black guy? Yeah that
would save me a lot of grief. Next time I'll just call 911 and skip the
racist accusations.
Thanks.
On May 30, 2012 12:20 AM, "Bridgette Burge" <bridgetteburge(a)gmail.com>
wrote:
How many emails about unknown white folks going
about business in our
neighborhood do we post?
Bridgette
On Wed, May 30, 2012 at 12:15 AM, Julia H <juliakhenderson(a)gmail.com>wrote;wrote:
How interesting that you take that
interpretation; here I was thinking
visual descriptors would help in identifying anyone unknown going about
business in the neighborhood, but what do I know?
Julia
On May 29, 2012 11:59 PM, "Bridgette Burge" <bridgetteburge(a)gmail.com>
wrote:
Hello neighbors,
Why is it frightening for a tall Black man to knock on someone's door?
In the past, I've been a volunteer canvasser going door to door for a
variety of causes. I think it's fabulous when people answer the door and
dialogue for a minute or two about an issue. I've also quickly told
knockers that I'm not interested in whatever it is they wish to talk about,
ask for, or sell.
People chosing to do what makes them feel safe is important. But, it
concerns me that a good number of our emails are about people of color
deemed suspect - because they are people of color. In my mind, that is very
different than witnessing a wrongdoing and describing what one sees.
Bridgette
1116 Culpepper Lane
On Tue, May 29, 2012 at 10:50 PM, <jvinson(a)nc.rr.com> wrote:
> I don't open the door for anybody I don't know.
> JV
> ---- Keith Emrick <keith.emrick(a)gmail.com> wrote:
> > Anybody else have a knock on the door this early evening from a tall
> black
> > man in blue jeans, plain white shirt and white shoes on? If I don't
> know
> > you, I don't answer the door so I don't know what this guy wanted. He
> > wasn't scared away by our massive dog trying to get him through the
> window.
> > He stayed on the porch for a while and eventually walked away north
> on
> > Marlborough while looking back. Anyone else?
>
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